[views-ax] Migrate TableView Rows/Cells Accessible kInvisible + kName

This CL migrates the TableView's VirtualAccessibility children which
represent the rows and cells to the new system of setting attributes
when the value is updated, rather than computing it when queried,
for their kInvisible and kName accessible attribute.

For the kName attribute, this acts as a reland of CL:5758269
since it had a failure in a bot because we went down a code path that
was going to be eliminated in this CL, so I just merged the two into
this one CL. I locally tested that the test passed as well as added
the try bot `linux-blink-web-tests-force-accessibility-rel` to the run
here since that's the one that failed.


This CL is part of the ViewsAX project:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Ku7HOyDsiZem1yaV6ccZ-tz3lO2XR2NEcm8HjR6d-VY/edit#heading=h.ke1u3utej413

Bug: 325137417
Change-Id: I0de7f5f01b141fe330386fbbf689bf5d009f6a3d
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/chromium/src/+/5775436
Reviewed-by: Dirk Pranke <dpranke@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Benjamin Beaudry <benjamin.beaudry@microsoft.com>
Commit-Queue: Javier Contreras <javiercon@microsoft.com>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#1344422}