Fix crash during EmbeddedWorkerInstance startup sequence failures

Once EWInstance startup calls the callback, it's possible that the
underlying ServiceWorkerVersion is destroyed, hence destroying
|this|. We must guard against that.

Also some failure points in the startup sequence weren't calling
OnStopped() as expected.

BUG=529520, 531345

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Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#349368}
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