[test] Symbolize crash stacks in death tests on-demand

Since death tests generate stack traces as a consequence of their
expected crashes and stack traces are expensive to compute, stack traces
in death test child processes are suppressed by default unless
`--with-stack-traces` is on the command line.

Along with this, emit a friendly message in place of symbolized stack
traces in death tests child processes to tell developers how to see the
stack traces if they wish. With this change, a death test that
unexpectedly fails for which a stack trace has been suppressed will emit
a message along the lines of:

[  DEATH   ] Received fatal exception EXCEPTION_ACCESS_VIOLATION
[  DEATH   ] Stack trace suppressed; retry with `--with-death-test-stack-traces --gtest_filter=ScopedHandleDeathTest.HandleVerifierTrackedHasBeenClosed`.

Bug: 332745407
Change-Id: I800646417920b038098959ba1edd6514f8047dad
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/chromium/src/+/5423251
Reviewed-by: Peter Boström <pbos@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Greg Thompson <grt@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: danakj <danakj@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#1284946}