[JS Sandbox] Use OOMErrorCallback instead of NearHeapLimitCallback

NearHeapLimitCallback isn't meant to handle OOM; it can be eargely
called before v8 gives up.
OOMErrorCallback seems like the proper hook to throw an exception.
Note: I updated v8 in DEPS to test against CQ, this change will be
remove once v8 change lands and rolls.
https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/7027934

Bug: 450361757
Change-Id: I0a03ce82513c828e7af64d724f5164240e353d11
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/chromium/src/+/7026578
Reviewed-by: Nate Fischer <ntfschr@chromium.org>
Commit-Queue: Etienne Pierre-Doray <etiennep@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#1528264}